Miasms

Why do we always fall in love with the most unsuitable person? Yip, believe it or not, we do. And then we wonder why it all of a sudden goes topsy turvy. Or we may have fallen in love with the most perfect person, and then we find fault. We deliberately go and look for something that makes them wrong, and then that person becomes the most unsuitable person.

Is it not remarkable that the human being will always indulge in that which is not quite right? Yes, we love deeply, and yes, we love with the most uncanny empathy and abandon, but also with deep subconscious needs and insecure motives. So, in a sense we never learn the lesson that is so beautifully displayed by our guides and those Souls that shape and form our lives.

Why do we not just love, we sometimes ask, without any judgement and any questioning? What is this mysterious thing that binds us to personal enculturization, and our resultant behavior patterns?

It is called miasms. Quite simply put, it is cellular memory. It attaches itself to our beingness, as learned patterns of behavior that may have formed through our interactions with peers or family, and may even be the result of genetic imprinting. It has now created an inbred causal pattern, which dictates our very way of being. Miasms is one of the most elegant devises that our Creator has built into our bodies, in order for us to live our lives according to that which we chose, or simply put, our contract that we negotiated for this current existence.

You see, we have free will. When we are Home (at rest, between lives) we literally queue up to re-incarnate again, and when we get the go-ahead, we have to negotiate a contract for our next life, based upon what we want to experience, and lessons or life paths that have not been successfully dealt with. We choose our parents, our family and our experiences. They do not choose us.

So, if we care to alter the way that we view our existence, our emotional experiences and physical hardships, life suddenly becomes much easier. It is only a play, and we have written it ourselves. With much excitement and co-operation, we consulted with all those Souls who will negotiate our life-paths with us, in all the different acts. And so the scenes are set, for that which we will experience on this planet. Sometimes this play may extend over many lifetimes, sometimes only one.

As we enact the script that we have co-created with others, be they good or bad, we have all agreed to it. We have a signed and sealed contract. Someone may cross your path, and cause you immense financial loss. Someone may break your heart. Someone may lead you into the world of drug abuse, or you may be born with physical dis-abilites. And so it goes on.

If we can but realise that all these inconveniences are placed before us, to experience duality, free will, and learn certain life lessons from it, which has as its ultimate purpose spiritual development, then it becomes easier to negotiate.

Miasms built into our cellular memory, either inherited or through enculturization, can also be removed, by simply transmuting the problem it created. They are not Karmic expressions, but certainly have the ability to become such. If we do not learn the lesson in this lifetime, well, we will have to face it again. Transmuting the problem created by miamistic cause is simply making peace with it and letting it go, without judgement or resentful emotions.

Accepting that we will all have to face many conditions and situations in this life-time, makes it easier for us to recognize those lessons, and deal with them from the understanding that both ourselves and the other actors in the play, are simply enacting a script. When it is done, release it, forget it and let it go.

Much like writing a review of the play, or act, that we have just experienced, we need to be able to criticize, dissect and evaluate our own performance. And then vow to do better next time, go over the script again, until we have it memorized. The personal subconscious can then imprint a new behavior pattern, or at least delete the previous file from our memory.

Being conscious of our behavior patterns and personal interaction with others in our environment, makes this easy to achieve. It is just that we have to recognize it. Once we have accepted that it is just a play, with a multitude of actors, we become empowered. So much so that we have the ability to free flow with that which is presented to us, detach from it, and view it from a different perspective. Then we can allow ourselves to make intelligent decisions, and be in charge, without losing out on our spontaneity.

Try it. It works.

And do not forget to honour your co-actors. Good or bad. They have helped you in more ways than you know.

Much Love and light